你可曾有过
明明约了朋友吃饭
镇江 可老板说:“晚上留下来加班”
镇江 虽然心里一万个不情愿
镇江 却依旧微笑说:“好的,老板!”
镇江 你可曾有过
明明自己手头不富裕
可朋友说:“我现在急用钱,能不能借点儿”
镇江 虽然自己都快要被裤腰带勒死了
却依旧大方说:“行!没事儿,不用着急还!”
你可曾有过

镇江 明明自己跟Ta不熟
可Ta却说:“你帮我去买个饭呗!”
镇江 虽然心里暗骂“我跟你很熟吗?!”
镇江 却依旧点头答应:“好啊!你吃什么?”
其实很多时候,
镇江 那个“NO”字就挂在嘴边,
却始终没有勇气说出口,
镇江 生怕一不小心得罪了别人。
镇江 于是,
你便成了“Mr or Miss OK”
Never say “No”!
镇江 不过没有关系
下面十种方法
镇江 让你不说“NO”也能委婉拒绝别人
镇江 给出否定的回答时
镇江 Use “Sorry” instead of “No”
X:No, I have a very important date.
镇江 √:I’m so sorry, I have an important date.
表示自己办不到时
Use “unable” instead of ”can’t”.
镇江 X:I can’t finish it by tonight!
√:I’m unable to finish it by tonight.
镇江 表示“拒绝”时
镇江 Use “turn down” instead of “refuse”
镇江 动图
X:I must refuse you.
镇江 √:I’m afraid I need to turn down your request.
当你不想让别人做某事时
Say “It’s not very proper to do sth”
instead of “You can’t do sth”
镇江 动图
镇江 X:You can’t ask me for help all the time.
√:It’s not very proper to ask me for help all the time.
镇江 打断别人时
镇江 Use “hold on a second”
instead of “stop”
动图
镇江 X:Stop! Your idea is too bad!
镇江 √:Hold on a second, I think there’s a small problem with your idea.
镇江 向别人提出其他条件时
Use “could” instead of “can”
动图
X:Can you give me one more day to do this?
√:Could you give me one more day to do this,please?
镇江 表示自己将不会去做某事时
镇江 Use “might not” instead of “won’t”
镇江 动图
镇江 X:I won’t have dinner with you tonight.
镇江 √:I might not have time to have dinner with you tonight.
镇江 在表明自己要做某事时
镇江 Use “need” instead of “must”
X:I must go now.
√:I’m afraid I need to go now.
镇江 表示你不想做某事时
Say “I‘d rather not do sth”
镇江 instead of “I don't want to do sth”
动图
X:I don’t want to do it.
镇江 √:I would rather not do it.
表示不赞同时
镇江 Say “Yes, but...”
镇江 instead of “I don't think so”
动图
镇江 X:I don’t think we match each other.
√:Yes, but I’m afraid we might not match each other.
现在你学会“拒绝”别人了吗?
镇江 你做过哪些“硬着头皮”答应别人做的事呢?
镇江 留言给我们吧!
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